"When I lived as a hearing person, it limited me. When I lived as a Deaf person, it set me free." ~ Philip B. Mecham
Sunday, December 28, 2003
I was going through my old poetry nootbook and found that I am missing more than several poems I had written less than 10 years ago! Man, I hope I find them soon! I found another poem and I don't remember if it was written by someone or by me. I won't take credit for it though. It's a good little poem! Here's the poem: unknown.
Friday, December 26, 2003
Thursday, December 25, 2003
Saturday, December 20, 2003
Stunning Health News About Hot Cocoa
Sweet! Hot cocoa really is good for you. Sip a steaming mug of hot cocoa and you'll get more disease-fighting antioxidants per cup than a similar serving of red wine or tea, report researchers from Cornell University.
Cocoa's antioxidants are almost two times stronger than red wine, two to three times stronger than green tea, and four to five times stronger than black tea, reports Science Daily. Antioxidants--vitamins C and E and beta carotene--are widely believed to fight cancer, heart disease, and aging. They may even help stave off the memory-robbing Alzheimer's disease.
The Cornell study is the most extensive comparison yet of the total antioxidant content of cocoa, wine, and tea, arguably the world's most popular drinks after water. There's just one problem with all this: Scientists know antioxidants are essential for our good health and longevity, but they don't yet know how much we need every day.
If you want to get your antioxidant dose from something sweet, there is nothing better than hot cocoa. And the key word here is "hot." Lead study author Chang Yong Lee says hot is better than cold. For some reason, when cocoa is heated, more antioxidants are released than when it's cold. Don't want the fat and extra sugar of hot cocoa? Use skim or soy milk instead of whole milk and an artificial sweetener instead of sugar.
The study findings appear in the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry.
Friday, December 19, 2003
I am losing faith in the USA's government. Why? Read this! But I wonder what they will think when they realize the FCC's requirements will contradict this decision? For those goverment officials responsible for disapproving captioning for a lot of tv shows, they should have their ears shot and see how quick they will decide to decline captioning after they cannot hear!
Thursday, December 18, 2003
Tuesday, December 16, 2003
Monday, December 15, 2003
Sunday, December 14, 2003
This is a repost from my old blog on 21 December 2001:
"Hey, you Deaf girls out there.. Listen here, I am not promoting "sex"! I am promoting "taking care of yourself".. Don't spread your legs and have sex with total strangers! If you are DYING to have sex, use a condom! Other people will judge you for getting AIDS/HIV or pregnant, but I will judge you for being a STUPID shit! Yes, I am mad at you. Harsh words coming from a friend who truly cares!"
..and 2 years later, most of them got smart! Unfortunately, the rest are still doing it.
Friday, December 12, 2003
Monday, December 08, 2003
I will change the commenting system because the design and layout looks so much better with this Weblog Commenting by HaloScan.com!
I am adding a linkage page, then adding a random microbanner script to the bottom left corner of this blog.
Please visit the links!! You can also add my microbanners and links to your site as well.
Please sign the petition to let DVD producers and distributors know that the Deaf would like the special features, bonus materials, deleted scenes and trailers to be captioned and/or subtitled.
Sunday, December 07, 2003

You represent... loneliness.
Always alone and always sad about it... unlike
angst, you don't have to look for a reason to
be miserable. You want to be in the company of
people but aren't sure how to act when you're
with them. Sometimes you have to make an
effort. You can't always wait for others to
come to you.
What feeling do you represent?
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Saturday, December 06, 2003
I am studying BlogSkins specs and codes. Why?? I am preparing to make blog and profile templates. Most of the templates will be made for opening inside AIM Today's window. I still need to figure out if it is possible to make my templates work on MSN Today or not. If you know the answer to that, please let me know!!
Friday, December 05, 2003
Freaky, what the Hell did I do?? I did nothing to hurt you, that I am aware of. I would never intentionally hurt you at all! You know that! It hurts that you blocked and ignored me without reason or explaination. If it has anything to do with my situation with Marc, then I am disappointed that you lied. You promised you would never take sides. If you are going to play the "cold-hearted bitch" game, then be my guest!
Thursday, December 04, 2003
Have you seen this commercial ASHA made? You can go HERE to view the commercial I was talking about. Watch the advertisement showed where this guy was driving an old VW Beetle in heavy traffic. He was not looking where he is going as he is trying to get out of the very noisy traffic jam. He went reverse and hit the vehicle behind him, then he moved forward and hit the vehicle in front of him. Their slogan is "Keep an Eye on Your Ears!" After watching the commercial, it left me feeling appalled and offended! It felt like I should be damned and not allowed to drive because I can't hear! It didn't help any better that the commercial was not even closed-captioned! Try watching that commercial again with the sound turned off. What's the idea you are getting from watching that commercial? I understand not all commercials would be closed captioned. But aside from the captioning issue, I am more concerned with the ASHA commercial giving hearing people a general idea that Deaf people cannot drive! Here are some added comments from people I know and hope they don't mind that I am sharing this with you:
Patty: My perspective of that commercial.. get your hearing checked every once in a while because hearing people do not realize they are actually losing their hearing bit by bit. The commercial is actually promoting "healthy hearing".
Marc: At first, when I saw this commerical, I did feel that it exhibited a message that people who have lost their hearing drive badly and will crash into other cars. I felt that it would compel the hearing people to think that hearing is very critical for driving, therefore deaf people should not drive at all. I know that it is not the intention of the society to broadcast that message. We already have enough hearing people who think Deaf people can't drive, so we don't need a commerical to validate that belief system.
Here are several email addresses I got from their website:
actioncenter@asha.org
leader@asha.org
ethics@asha.org
Please email ASHA to post a public explaination that their commercial is not intended to encourage hearing people's misconceptions that Deaf people cannot drive, and/or ask them to remove the commercial and post a public apology.
http://www.asha.org
Tuesday, December 02, 2003
Monday, December 01, 2003
Tuesday, November 25, 2003
If you have friends, ask yourself this: "Am I a true friend?"
I know I wouldn't leave a friend hanging there alone if they needed help. True friends don't give up on their friends. True friends don't give "tough love". I know what tough love is, because I had it my whole life. When I think of "tough love", it makes me think of negative feelings. I admit to being somewhat negative, but being negative to me doesn't help. So, I know "tough love" doesn't work for me. Constructive criticism works better.
Monday, November 24, 2003
Saturday, November 22, 2003
I have come across new information this week that my former roommate, Aaron Williams, admitted publicly to kicking me out of my residence in Orem, Utah. He caused me unnecessary hardship and emotional abuse, resulting in forcing me out of the place. I moved out because I wanted the peace. Obviously, he loves to contend with others, especially me! It's no surprise this asshole isn't married yet!
Dude, here's a free clue for you: "People HATE to be controlled and disrespected. Stop trying to lord over others and learn to control yourself!"
Thursday, November 20, 2003
Wednesday, November 19, 2003
Tuesday, November 18, 2003
Monday, November 17, 2003
For those who know Curt, here's a bunch of photos of him! He's an awesome dude and will be greatly missed when he moves back East next month!
*sigh*
Sunday, November 16, 2003
Saturday, November 15, 2003
What's Laurent, South Dakota?
Welcome! The town of Laurent, South Dakota is a vision that has been in the making for many years. Our vision is for a place where our nation's signing community can gather together to live, work, play, and worship in comfort and beauty. Laurent, S.D. is not just for deaf or hard of hearing people — the town welcomes and embraces hearing people from all walks of life who want to be a part of the sign language community. Today, Laurent exists only as a dream in the minds of its founders, and now, it is up to us to actually build this town that is accessible, friendly, economically and politically viable. A place we can proudly call HOME.
// more info..
Today, as of 8:35 AM, I erased myself, along with stories, pictures and my list of 71 friends from www.ringo.com.
Friday, November 14, 2003
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Thursday, November 13, 2003
Wednesday, November 12, 2003
featured stinker:
danny ghetto wannabe

"Yo, wiggah!" Hey, farm boy, you need to drop the ghetto wannabe act! It's getting very old. Several people came up and informed me that, lately, you have been talking shit about me. Okay, you asked for it, dude. All hands are out, knuckled and ready. Wanna start a fight with me, bitch?? You're the first featured stinker of this website! I know I am going to sound very harsh, but I have had it up here with you and your inability to care for your guests at this apartment!! What you did to me was not very nice, talking behind my back and saying stuff that aren't true! If you have something to say, you say it to my face and stop running around like a chickenshit. I could write a very long article about you and the shit you hash out ON your roommates, dates and friends, but this time, I will keep it simple. Yo, motherfucker.. I never hacked into your computer, not even once, not even twice! I am angry that you aren't being the friend I thought you were. If you never left your dates and friends here, I would never had to TOUCH your virus/worm/porn infected computer! How did I get in your computer in the first place? Dude, I cannot believe you are that STUPID enough to leave your password in the hint box! Let me educate you to get your 2 stories straight: Story 1: "On November 1, I selfishly left Wendy at my apartment while I went out to have fun with other friends all Saturday morning. She was using my computer and somehow my screensaver which I had set for 5 minutes went up and locked her out. She was near tears and panicking that she had no way of calling her family or friends for a ride home which is 40 miles away from my apartment. She didn't have everyone's numbers to call on the videophone. Fortunately for Wendy, Philip came out of his bedroom and saw her freaking out and sitting at my computer. Philip asked her what's wrong and she told him about my stupid screensaver being so inconsiderate to her. Philip went to my computer and typed a few keys. He got an error on my computer and clicked the password hint box. *gasp!* How dumb and idiotic of me to leave my password in the hint box! Philip saw what the password is and typed it in. The computer opened up and Wendy was so very grateful and thanked Philip for his help. He left Wendy with my computer. Gee!! I should have taken Wendy and drove her home myself because I had her over my apartment! And, thank you, Philip, for saving my inconsiderate ass!" Story 2: "One of my friends, Curt, came over to my apartment 2 nights ago. After chatting with me, I went to bed while Curt was chatting with Philip. It was my mistake not saying goodnight to my friend and letting him know I am going to bed. Curt ended up thinking I had left my apartment and deserted him. Curt went to my room and asked Philip if he knows how to get in my computer. Philip told Curt that he is not sure about it because it is my computer and I might have changed the password already. I forgot Curt has Usher's Syndrome and won't always see everything right away. Philip came into my dark bedroom and saw me laying in bed and waved to me. I waved back. Philip turned to Curt and told him I am still here on the bed and awake. Philip suggested to Curt to ask me instead if I could log him in my computer and leave Philip out of it. I didn't go back to bed because I thought Philip was hacking into my computer and stayed awake a little longer. I should have trusted Philip now that I know the story!" Okay, Danny boy.. I was trying to help your friends because you were NOT there to help them! Next time you ditch your friends at this apartment, I am kicking them out of the building, literally! You better start being a real friend and make sure your friends or dates are taken care of BEFORE you either leave the apartment or before you go to bed! Now that you have backstabbed me, I am tired of covering for you! You have hurt me and I don't want to have anything to do with you now! Learn to be responsible for YOUR guests, bitch! *snap*
danny ghetto wannabe

"Yo, wiggah!" Hey, farm boy, you need to drop the ghetto wannabe act! It's getting very old. Several people came up and informed me that, lately, you have been talking shit about me. Okay, you asked for it, dude. All hands are out, knuckled and ready. Wanna start a fight with me, bitch?? You're the first featured stinker of this website! I know I am going to sound very harsh, but I have had it up here with you and your inability to care for your guests at this apartment!! What you did to me was not very nice, talking behind my back and saying stuff that aren't true! If you have something to say, you say it to my face and stop running around like a chickenshit. I could write a very long article about you and the shit you hash out ON your roommates, dates and friends, but this time, I will keep it simple. Yo, motherfucker.. I never hacked into your computer, not even once, not even twice! I am angry that you aren't being the friend I thought you were. If you never left your dates and friends here, I would never had to TOUCH your virus/worm/porn infected computer! How did I get in your computer in the first place? Dude, I cannot believe you are that STUPID enough to leave your password in the hint box! Let me educate you to get your 2 stories straight: Story 1: "On November 1, I selfishly left Wendy at my apartment while I went out to have fun with other friends all Saturday morning. She was using my computer and somehow my screensaver which I had set for 5 minutes went up and locked her out. She was near tears and panicking that she had no way of calling her family or friends for a ride home which is 40 miles away from my apartment. She didn't have everyone's numbers to call on the videophone. Fortunately for Wendy, Philip came out of his bedroom and saw her freaking out and sitting at my computer. Philip asked her what's wrong and she told him about my stupid screensaver being so inconsiderate to her. Philip went to my computer and typed a few keys. He got an error on my computer and clicked the password hint box. *gasp!* How dumb and idiotic of me to leave my password in the hint box! Philip saw what the password is and typed it in. The computer opened up and Wendy was so very grateful and thanked Philip for his help. He left Wendy with my computer. Gee!! I should have taken Wendy and drove her home myself because I had her over my apartment! And, thank you, Philip, for saving my inconsiderate ass!" Story 2: "One of my friends, Curt, came over to my apartment 2 nights ago. After chatting with me, I went to bed while Curt was chatting with Philip. It was my mistake not saying goodnight to my friend and letting him know I am going to bed. Curt ended up thinking I had left my apartment and deserted him. Curt went to my room and asked Philip if he knows how to get in my computer. Philip told Curt that he is not sure about it because it is my computer and I might have changed the password already. I forgot Curt has Usher's Syndrome and won't always see everything right away. Philip came into my dark bedroom and saw me laying in bed and waved to me. I waved back. Philip turned to Curt and told him I am still here on the bed and awake. Philip suggested to Curt to ask me instead if I could log him in my computer and leave Philip out of it. I didn't go back to bed because I thought Philip was hacking into my computer and stayed awake a little longer. I should have trusted Philip now that I know the story!" Okay, Danny boy.. I was trying to help your friends because you were NOT there to help them! Next time you ditch your friends at this apartment, I am kicking them out of the building, literally! You better start being a real friend and make sure your friends or dates are taken care of BEFORE you either leave the apartment or before you go to bed! Now that you have backstabbed me, I am tired of covering for you! You have hurt me and I don't want to have anything to do with you now! Learn to be responsible for YOUR guests, bitch! *snap*
Tuesday, November 11, 2003
I am trying out a few layouts from BlogSkins.com, so please be patient with me! I also need to work on content for the right side of this page.. and, no, I am not Jess.
Monday, November 10, 2003
I am testing out an Internet Explorer right-click menu add-on registry file for posting into my BlogThis! I will post a variety of these nifty right-click menu options. If you have a homepage you want added to your right-click menu, please feel free to ask me!
By using my registry files, you agree not to hold me responsible for any damages to your computer, as I have already tried them on my computer and no harm came to it. If they do not work on your computer, I don't know how to help you! Don't bother me with reports of bugs in my registry files. Don't download them if you don't know what you are doing! These registry files do NOT work with Netscape or other browsers. The bottom line is:
USE AT YOUR OWN RISK!!!
IE Right-Click Menu Options:
iMood Updater - download
BlogThis! - download
My Blog - download
alldeaf.com v2 - Helpful Hints:
Drinking two glasses of Gatorade can relieve headache pain almost immediately-without the unpleasant side effects caused by traditional pain relievers.
Did you know that Colgate toothpaste makes an excellent salve for burns.
Before you head to the drugstore for a high-priced inhaler filled with mysterious chemicals, try chewing on a couple of curiously strong Altoids peppermints. They'll clear up your stuffed nose.
Achy muscles from a bout of the flu? Mix 1 Tablespoon of horseradish in 1/2 cup of olive oil. Let the mixture sit for 30 minutes, then apply it as a massage oil, for instant relief for aching muscles.
Sore Throat?? Just mix 1/4 cup of vinegar with 1/4 cup of honey and take 1 Tablespoon six times a day. The vinegar kills the bacteria.
Cure urinary tract infections with alka-seltzer. Just dissolve two tablets in a glass of water and drink it at the onset of the symptoms. Alka-seltzer begins eliminating urinary tract infections almost instantly-even though the product was never been advertised for this use.
Eliminate puffiness under your eyes.....All you need is a dab of preparation H, carefully rubbed into the skin, avoiding the eyes. The hemorrhoid ointment acts as a vasoconstrictor, relieving the swelling instantly.
Honey remedy for Skin Blemishes, Cover the blemish with a dab of honey and place a Band-Aid over it. Honey kills the bacteria, keeps the skin sterile, and speeds healing. Works overnight.
Listerine therapy for toenail fungus....Get rid of unsightly toenail fungus by soaking your toes in Listerine mouthwash. The powerful antiseptic leaves your toenails looking healthy again.
Easy eyeglass protection....To prevent the screws in eyeglasses from loosening, apply a small drop of clear nail polish to the threads of the screws before tightening them.
Coca-Cola cure for rust...Forget those expensive rust removers. Just saturate an abrasive sponge with Coca Cola and scrub the rust stain. The phosphoric acid in the coke is what gets the job done.
Cleaning liquid that doubles as bug killer....If menacing bees, wasps, hornets, or yellow jackets get in your home and you can't find the insecticide, try a spray of Formula 409. Insects drop to the ground instantly.
Smart splinter remover.....just pour a drop of Elmers Glue-all over the splinter, let dry, and peel the dried glue off the skin. The splinter sticks to the dried glue.
Hunt's tomato paste boil cure....Cover the boil with Hunt's tomato paste as a compress. The acids from the tomatoes soothe the pain and bring the boil to a head.
Balm for broken blisters.....To disinfect a broken blister, dab on a few drops of Listerine....a powerful antiseptic.
Heinz vinegar to heal bruises...Soak a cotton ball in white vinegar and apply it to the bruise for 1 hour. The vinegar reduces the blueness and speeds up the healing process.
Kills fleas instantly. Dawn dishwashing liquid does the trick. Add a few drops to your dog's bath and shampoo the animal thoroughly. Rinse well to avoid skin irritations. Good-bye fleas.
Rainy day cure for dog odor....Next time your dog comes in from the rain, simply wipe down the animal with Bounce or any dryer sheet, instantly making your dog smell springtime fresh.
Eliminate ear mites....All it takes is a few drops of Wesson corn oil in your cat's ear. Massage it in, then clean with a cotton ball. Repeat daily for 3 days. The oil soothes the cat's skin, smothers the mites, and accelerates healing.
Vaseline cure for hairballs.....To prevent troublesome hairballs, apply a dollop of Vaseline petroleum jelly to your cat's nose. The cat will lick off the jelly, lubricating any hair in its stomach so it can pass easily through the digestive system.
Quaker Oats for fast pain relief....It's not for breakfast anymore! Mix 2 cups of Quaker Oats and 1 cup of water in a bowl and warm in the microwave for 1 minute, cool slightly, and apply the mixture to your hands for soothing relief from arthritis pain.
Sunday, November 09, 2003
rodeoprincess113 (1:52:20 PM): hi
rodeoprincess113 (1:53:07 PM): someone gave me ur sn and told me 2 talk 2 u
Deaf258 (1:53:40 PM): about what?
rodeoprincess113 (1:53:52 PM): nothing
rodeoprincess113 (1:54:35 PM): asl
Deaf258 (1:54:39 PM): then why IM me?
rodeoprincess113 (1:54:53 PM): i was bored
Deaf258 (1:56:25 PM): not good enough of a reason
rodeoprincess113 (1:56:36 PM): o
Deaf258 (1:56:45 PM): * blocked rodeoprincess113 *
A note to everyone NOT on my buddy list: If you IM me for no good reason, don't bother. I will block your dumb ass!
A note to everyone NOT on my buddy list: If you IM me for no good reason, don't bother. I will block your dumb ass!
Tuesday, October 28, 2003
Shoot, the bitch broke her word again!
Okay, here's the story. It was brought to my attention by one of my roommates telling me people in the Deaf community has been saying that it was not true about my exwife's second husband who raped her while they were seniors back in high school. If you are one of those peeps who think it is not true, step back a little bit.
Hello?!?! I would never make such a serious statement like this if it was not true! Back in 1995, I was hanging out with Tim and we were starting to become good friends. When my ex found out about it, she panicked and told me that Tim, her exboyfriend in high school, raped her. Believing her words, it turned me off and I didn't associate myself with him. As I got to know her better before and after our marriage, I noticed small clues and little signs that she wasn't telling me the truth. Of course, I have caught her telling her folks fancy fibs and getting away with it! When I approached her several times on the topic of her past exboyfriends, she told me that she also got forced by another exboyfriend in California. Again, I believed her which I realize now that it was a BIG mistake. About a week before we got married, I was there when she confessed to her mother about Tim raping her in high school. You see? Can I trust her word for it or not? Again, I trusted her as I was blind in love and was supportive of her. She also told a few other Deaf peeps in Arizona about her past with Tim. They all believed her. Well, after a series of fabricated problems, she left me saying 6 things will happen after she divorces me:
- "I will be best friends with my mother again and be closer to her!"
- "I will marry a returned missionary!"
- "I will wait to marry my returned missionary in the temple and not in the church."
- "I will not work as a cosmetologist ever again!"
- "I am going to college and get a degree!"
- "And FUCK UTAH! I am never moving back here again because I hate most of the people here!"
Monday, October 27, 2003
I've been finding cool stuff to add to this page. I finally found a free service that will host the comments you would want to add to the page. It should be easy to use and interact with everyone else now!
Added: BlogOut! You can click on the u sign at the end of the post where you want to add on your comment. It's that easy!
Saturday, October 25, 2003
Wednesday, October 22, 2003
Monday, October 20, 2003
Someone was asking me where did I learn Photoshop. Basically, I just installed the program and played around with it until I like the images I am making. You can look for more info on how to use the program by going to Google's search and find "photoshop tutorial"!
I use:
http://www.absolutecross.com/
http://spoono.com/
http://www.wastedyouth.org/
http://www.phong.com/
http://www.guistuff.com/
http://robouk.mchost.com/
http://www.eyeball-design.com/
http://www.planetphotoshop.com/
http://www.teamphotoshop.com/
http://deviantart.com/
I use:
http://www.absolutecross.com/
http://spoono.com/
http://www.wastedyouth.org/
http://www.phong.com/
http://www.guistuff.com/
http://robouk.mchost.com/
http://www.eyeball-design.com/
http://www.planetphotoshop.com/
http://www.teamphotoshop.com/
http://deviantart.com/
One of my BIGGEST pet peeves is Deaf and hearing people have a lot of misconceptions of interpreters and their roles on the job. Over the summer, I took an RID approved workshop about interpreting. I learned one main thing: Interpreters ARE underpaid! With or without benefits, they are still underpaid! If interpreters are paid 35 to 50 bucks an hour, they only get to see less than 14 bucks income and profit in return!! They have a lot to worry about, working the right number of hours, making sure the evaluation and licensing fees are paid for, to sign up and pay for the workshops to get the required earned credit units for recertification every two years or so, paying any of the medical bills incurred from interpreting, paying for the gas to travel from one interpreting assignment to another, paying for the parking fees at business or school parking lots.. The list could go on! More than half of what interpreters make goes back to making sure the interpreters themselves are certified. It sure doesn't seem to be fair, but that's the way it is right now. The workshop's presentator researched that if things were fair 100% for interpreters, they would be working the top paying jobs in the world, earning approximately 90 dollars an hour plus benefits! End of the line: Interpreters are underpaid, period. They have every right to bitch and complain about having no benefits or not earning enough income on the job! After I took that workshop, I had better respect for the interpreters and made myself shut up about them complaining about low pay and no benefits.
Imagine them having to work 15 to 25 dollars an hour? Now, that's slavery!
Imagine them having to work 15 to 25 dollars an hour? Now, that's slavery!
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Friday, October 17, 2003
I found these nifty tips on Netscape.com.
Do It Yourself Tips
Kestner suggests the following simple ways to use your own herb garden to add a bit of aromatherapy to your life:
Mix your favorite herbs to create new scent combinations.
Pick a handful of botanicals and put it in your bathwater. Wrap a bunch of clean, fresh herbs -- such as lavender or chamomile -- in a gauze pouch, and drop it in your bath to release the oils in the leaves.
For softly scented linens, toss a gauze pouch of clean herbs in the clothes dryer with an unscented fabric softener sheet.
Thursday, October 16, 2003
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